tackleyourobstacle

                                                           OBSTACLE OF THE MONTH




 
                       Patrick is a young man who is in his late twenties. Although he is a successful businessman, but, his eyes have seen more than his mouth can say before he became a successful businessman. Patrick passed through a lot on his way to success. He met many challenges, he faced many giants and he tackled many obstacles. Being the only child of his parents also doubled his problems. His parents started depending on him right from his university days and for that, he has to sponsor himself to school.



                     When Patrick was in his 100 level, he met a lady {Juliet} who he later fell in love with. He tried all he could to win Juliet's heart and he later did. Even though Juliet was so demanding, Patrick still tried all he could to provide for Juliet and after some time, Patrick realised that Juliet is too demanding. Times without count, he tried to explain his financial situation to Juliet when she asks for things Patrick cannot afford. But instead of Juliet to understand, she picks up quarrel with Patrick. Juliet's constant demand made Patrick do some crazy things in other to satisfy her and at a time, he went too far by not paying his school fees in his 2nd year in school and that cost him an extra year.



                   After about 2 years of dating, constant demand from Juliet and supply by Patrick, Juliet approached Patrick and told him that she's tired of the relationship and would like to quit. She further said that Patrick is "Not man enough" for her. Patrick's heart was broken, but after many months of nursing his broken heart, he decided to move on with his life. He became so determined to make it in life and he also moved closer to God. After about 7 years, Patrick became a successful businessman and he is financially alright now.



                 Not quite long, Patrick went to a friends birthday party and there, he met a long time friend, Juliet. They both exchanged contacts and Juliet apologized for all she made Patrick pass through. After many apologies, Patrick accepted her apology and they became friends {not lovers} again. Presently, Patrick is confused of what to do because ever since she forgave Juliet, Juliet has been disturbing him to accept her back as his lover. she even went further to tell him that she is ready to marry him. Patrick reminded her of what she said {"Not man enough"}, but Juliet said that was when she was an ignorant. Although Patrick is not in any serious relationship with anybody and he still loves Juliet {though he is not showing it} but, Patrick is confuse of what to do because he does not know if Juliet really loves him or she is after his money.





WHAT DO YOU THINK PATRICK SHOULD DO? SHOULD HE ACCEPT JULIET BACK OR SHOULD HE REJECT HER? AND WHY?


Please, kindly post your comment of what you think Patrick should do.





Thanks.

From,
The Coordinator,
Tackle Your Obstacle
Motivational Group.
Austus Ofmat Nwanne

      Comments so far...

Deborah Yinka Olusola  > he has 4given juliet nd i fink dats all. i dt think juliet wat him, remember she said he is not man enuf but now dat he is rich he is man enuf abi? anyway if patrick still loves her den love conquer all things so dey shld go on

Olagunju Ifeoluwa Fisayo  > Patrick shuld find a beta girl who is worth him cos Juliet sure dosent worth him, cos a girl who leaves u wen u were notin dosent deserve u wen u are something. wat if things go wrong again(God forbid) will she not pack her things and leave.......breaking his heart all over again? He shuld be patient and be prayerful cos marriage is a lifetime contract which shuld not be rushed into.

Ladipo Oluwaseyi > It's obvious d girl is after his money. The best thing is to be prayerful and search his heart deep down

Abednego Omashone